Celebrating Belinda’s 40th Birthday
Thank YOU So Much For Being Apart Of MY Life! You have a special place in my heart. Even if I have never met you and you are watching from afar, I appreciate you more than you know. During this process, I became very present with how much I have not only achieved but more importantly – how grateful I am for all of the things that have grown me, the challenges, the grief, the loss, and the toxic relationships. They have all taught me what I want and what I deserve and are pushing me to live my purpose of helping others to see just truly how special they are and that all the challenges are blessings, happening for you. I also saw just how much love I have surrounding me, and how much love I have to give. I have been blessed, and I am so grateful. I encourage you to look back over your life and put together a compilation of YOU. It isn’t self-absorbed, it is freeing, inspiring, and truly enlightening. It will shift you from that negative headspace into seeing just how special you are. And that there is more to come. Please leave a comment on any fun, beautiful, transformative, happy, experiences you have with Belinda that you would like to share. sharing love is also receiving love. Enjoy the next 40 years and live it doing the things you absolutely love!
I Can’t Find Love, What is Wrong With Me? Ep 10 – Belinda Love In The R.O.A.R
We often apply negative meaning to the fact we are single. “Something must be wrong with me”, “I am not good enough”, “I am worthy of love but I intimidate them”. There is NOTHING wrong with you if you are single. I promise. People, please stop asking that question as well. It is a backhanded compliment, and insensitive. This episode is going to enable you to see that there is nothing wrong with you. You are as delicious as nutella, just not everyone’s taste, and that is perfect. Who has time for everyone in the world anyway. It is all about quality not quantity and this podcast shares the three ways to overcome this negative self-belief. Enjoy xx You can find me hereWeb: belindalove.com.auInsta: BelindaLove_CoachFB: Belinda Love CoachYouTube: Belinda Love Coach
The Dirties C Word… Comparison, How to STOP Comparing! Ep 11 – Belinda Love in The R.O.A.R
Social Media has made it so easy for us to see and compare ourselves to each other and listen to our inner-critic. She is prettier than me, he has better abs than me, why would they date me? This episode will share with you how to stop comparing yourself, and start embracing yourself. You are just as amazing as the next person, we are just different. It is that self-belief that makes us standout and more attractive to the world. Your vibe attracts your tribe. You are allowed to love yourself as you are. Stay true to you and appreciate others but don’t try and be like them. Much love Belinda XX
Dating Meh! I Can’t be Bothered. Ep 10 – Belinda Love in The R.O.A.R
Dating used to be fun, we would make a plan, meet or get picked up and have an amazing time. Then discuss the next steps so there is clarity and boundaries. Now it is uncertain, filled with ghosting, cancelling, lies about intentions and no integrity. Whilst this is true, not everyone is like that and you can definitely meet someone, I promise. Here are the steps to enjoy dating again. Enjoy Belinda xx
How do I Find Commitment Over Casual Sex? Ep 4 in The 7 Why’s You Are Single.
It is hard to believe that people even want a relationship now with all the options to meet someone, online dating, social media, ease of travel and connection. But I promise you that it is possible to find a genuine connection that will turn into a commitment and I uncover how to do that in this episode.You can find me on my socials Insta: BelindaLove_Coach FB: Belinda Love Enjoy and shareLots of loveBelinda xx
Am I Running Out of Time to Find Love? Ep 3 of The 7 Why’s I am Single
Having a deadline on finding love will put pressure on the process which may ultimately create the opposite effect. Fearing running out of time may cause you to find or stay in a relationship that isn’t the right person for you. This episode I share the 4 Steps to removing this love-block in order to create ease, and remove the pressures of finding love. I will encourage you to slow down and be aware of your values so you find the right person for you. You can find me on my socials Insta: BelindaLove_Coach FB: Belinda Love
How to Handle Rejection – Ep 2 in the 7 Why’s I am Single
Part of the reason why we don’t connect vulnerably and avoid finding love is the simple fact that we may be “rejected” or have to deal with potential heartbreak, and lets be real, heartbreak is the worst, but so is feeling lonely or avoiding heartbreak. This episode I explain why there is no such thing as rejection and transform your mindset to get excited about dating and deal with the journey that is finding love. You can find me on my socials Insta: BelindaLove_Coach FB: Belinda Love
I Don’t Think I Will Find Love…. Oh But You Will. Ep 1 in the 7 Why’s I am Single
If you have had a lot of bad experiences and have given up on love, this episode is for you. Our past experiences dictate our current outcomes, only if we allow them to be present in our thoughts. If you believe that you won’t find love, that is ultimately what will happen. I know you have dealt with horrible partners, they hurt you real bad and I am really genuinely sorry as I have also, but it is time for the partner you deserve and they are out there. I promise, your past does not predict your future and you will find love.This episode will uncover and breakdown how you will find love despite your past experiences. Please get in touch for a free 30 minute Love-Reading belinda@bloved.com.au
Ep 5 – Why Can’t I Find Love? The 7 Part Series Debunking Love-Blocks – Belinda Love in the R.O.A.R Podcast
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Online Dating – Tragic or Magic
Has online dating ruined how we connect with each other? Does the swipe right and match take away from the genuine connections we have formed naturally in the past and make us simply lazy? What happened to the good old days of calling the person you liked, asking them on a date, arranging it a few days before hand, being picked up, being taken somewhere nice and maybe a little bit romantic and being shown a lovely time, getting dropped off and a good night kiss with no expectations of the horizontal salsa and then you hear from them to make another date?? GONE I tell you they have GONE with the wind! (clearly I am very traditional, quoting old school movies, or maybe I am showing my age haha) What happens now is very different. Has technology ruined it forever?? There are so many pro’s and con’s to online dating, I guess it just depends on how we treat or mistreat it. Some pro’s and con’s include; ProWe can meet more people around the world ConWe get lost in all the options ProIt reduces the blind date risk factor ConWe have become superficial ProYou feel connected ConWe are actually disconnecting from reality ProCommunication is quick ConIt is so quick we get inundated and we don’t actually reply to messages ProSo many options ConWe get decision fatigue Has technology ruined it for us all and generations to come?? No, I don’t believe that online dating has ruined how we date and connect, yes it is has contributed to a major shift and has changed the game a lot, I don’t however, think it is the cause. I think we need to take a good long hard look at ourselves – the users or should I say abusers! I think we have abused the system, you go to the gym and watch everyone train instead of training you won’t get the results. You look at the clothes in the window and don’t try them on you won’t know if it fits you, reality check – same goes for online dating. The upside is – we can change the game again if we like! Online dating is a tool we have been given in order to make dating easier, allow us to connect with more people and have a choice, remove the uncertainty of blind dating and enable us to find love. We have gone and sabotaged it and made it harder rather than easier. Did you know that Tinder was actually created to connect people and take away the stress of wondering if someone was interested and it was launched for uni students, very similar to Facebook. What happened from there is all our own doing. Sorry to say it guys and gals, we are living in a society filled with deviants afraid of falling in love – hence the tinder booty call was created – which is technically called “Netflix n chill”. We are quite good at sugar coating the truth haha. So yes, my belief is that we use it incorrectly. Online dating is not the perpetrator, it is the victim and we made it the murderer to dating and finding love. Instead of its original purpose, it is now utilised for booty calls, dick pics, ego boosts, a swipe game and more. We don’t put any description, we put photos of our pets and food, we don’t include pics of just ourselves, we message and don’t respond, we match and don’t make contact, some people use it for a sounding board about all the shitty dates or a way to abuse the opposite sex for being douche-bags or gold diggers and yet we are all confused. Then when we do finally meet someone online and the magic happens we say – “oh lets just say we met through friends” so then online dating doesn’t even get any credit at all and no one really knows the beauty of it if you use it correctly. It is absolutely possible to find love online, I know many people who finally admitted to me they met online haha and that is because they used it correctly. I think Tinder should have a different site – maybe called sexter or something where you go just for booty calls and a site for relationships so we can separate the two and make it easier for people to find what they are looking for. I even want to design an app that has a video profile so you can listen to them speak and you can say something about yourself rather than a short, uninformative description that is generally written in emojis combined with pics that don’t even show their face or hobbies. Put effort in, you will reap the rewards. No more charades or pretending one thing to get another or leading people on. Just straight up front, good old-fashioned honesty and integrity. It is hard to do that these days as we are all a little bit too scared of getting hurt with the truth so it is easier to lie and get what we want and disappear not realising that actually hurts more in the end which is ultimately why I think we got ourselves into this predicament in the first place but that is another entirely new blog topic. Either way, do I think you can find love online – Yes! Here are four quick steps to aid that Write a good profile descriptionPick great pics of you eg; doing your hobbies, hanging with friends, head shot and full lengthActually message and respondMake a time to meet If you want to download the 6 Steps to a Killer Online Dating Experience you can do so in this link. We can change how it works by simply changing your attitude, make some effort and be a little bit vulnerable. If it doesn’t work out, there is plenty of fish, another great dating app haha. Go forth and prosper!!
